The Life ManualTLM Basic

Reference library

The library of the journey

The course’s frameworks, practices, values and origin charts, gathered in one place. Each entry shows the course’s own figure or words and links back to the day that teaches it.

Frameworks

The maps the course returns to on every day.

The Journey of Life

Every human life is a journey with four essential elements: the Goal, the Path, the Vehicle, and the Traveller, with his instruments.

The Goal is what we are ultimately seeking—not merely success or wealth, but lasting peace, fulfilment and inner freedom. The Path is how we live each day in pursuit of that Goal. The 4-wheeled Vehicle is the life we travel in—our relationships, our values, our work and finances.

The Journey of Life: a Traveller seated in a four-wheeled Vehicle on a road towards a rising sun. The wheels are Relationships, Profession and Work, Finances, and Values and Ethics.
Day 1 · Figure 1The Journey of Life — the foundational TLM model: the Traveller seated in the four-wheeled Vehicle, the Instruments the Traveller uses, the Path, and the Goal on the horizon.

Figure 1 of almost every day shows where that day sits on the Journey.

Read in Day 1 — Who am I? · The journey of life and the Traveller · also Day 7, Day 14, Day 20, Day 21

The 4–3–5 system of TLM

The Journey of Life tells us what we are trying to govern. The Three Levels explain where disturbance arises and where transformation must occur. The Five Tools provide the practical means of bringing about that transformation.

The 4 is the Journey of Life — the Traveller with his Instruments (Body-mind complex), the Goal, the Path, and the 4-wheeled Vehicle. The 3 are the three layers of the mind that must be addressed for a lasting transformation. The 5 are the five tools that do not merely influence conscious thought. They work simultaneously upon: Gross Mind, Subtle Mind, Subconscious Mind.

Week 1 integration: Traveller, Goal, Path and Instrument; four life domains; three levels within the Instrument; five tools.Week 1 integrationTravellerAwarenessusesInstrumentThe body-mind complex3Three levelsGrossSubtleSubconsciousPathPurusharthasGoalPeace and Bliss4Four life domainsRelationshipsWorkFinancesValues5Five toolsSpiritualOrientationValue ofthe dayIntentionalActivityScientificQuadrantMeditation
Day 7 · Figure 2 The Journey of Life gives the context: four life domains, three levels within the Instrument, and five tools work as one coordinated system.

Read in Day 20 — The Goal of the Journey · The five tools of transformation · also Day 6, Day 7

The Seven Stages of Inner Governance

TLM’s seven stages of training the mind, from understanding the mind to transcending it.

Just as physical fitness develops through systematic training of the body, Inner Governance develops through systematic training of the mind. This journey can be understood through the Seven Stages of Inner Governance.

The Seven Stages of Inner Governance, drawn as a stone staircase rising from left to right: 1 Understand the Mind, 2 Calm the Mind, 3 Train Attention and Focus, 4 Move Attention at Will, 5 Purify the Mind, 6 Witness the Mind, 7 Transcend the Mind. Stages 1 to 4 are complete, Stage 5 is underway, Stage 6 has commenced on Day 20 and Stage 7 is the future horizon; the marker “You are here, Day 20” stands where Stage 6 begins. A fine gold arrow runs parallel to the ascent, growing from a hairline to full weight: increasing clarity, freedom and mastery as one climbs. Stage 1 Understand the Mind Complete Stage 2 Calm the Mind Complete Stage 3 Train Attention and Focus Complete Stage 4 Move Attention at Will Complete Stage 5 Purify the Mind Underway Stage 6 Witness the Mind Commenced Stage 7 Transcend the Mind Futurehorizon Increasing clarity, freedom and mastery You are here Day 20
Day 20 · Figure 3Inner Governance develops through progressive training of the mind.
  1. Understand the Mind Week 1
  2. Calm the Mind Weeks 1 and 2
  3. Train Attention and Focus Week 2
  4. Move Attention at Will Weeks 2 to 3
  5. Purify the Mind Week 3
  6. Witness the Mind Week 3
  7. Transcend the Mind Further practice and the TLM Seeker Programme

Read in Day 20 — The Goal of the Journey · Inner Governance · also Day 1, Day 4, Day 14

Inner Governance

The disciplined capacity to regulate attention, emotion and behaviour under pressure.

Inner Governance is the cultivation of an intellect that can guide the mind rather than being controlled by it.

Inner GovernanceWhat the stages build“The disciplined capacity to regulate attention, emotion and behaviour even under pressure — in alignment with personal values and institutional ethos to fulfil the envisaged goal.”
Engaged Non-Attachment — ENAWhere it leadsENA is the trained capacity to be fully present in every role you play, fully engaged in every responsibility, and fully committed in every relationship—without being defined, driven or destabilised by any one of them.
Day 14 · Figure 5The seven stages build Inner Governance; Inner Governance leads to Engaged Non-Attachment.

Read in Day 20 — The Goal of the Journey · Inner Governance · also Day 1, Day 12, Day 14, Day 14

Engaged Non-Attachment (ENA)

Full presence and giving fully while clinging to nothing; the fruit of Inner Governance.

The trained capacity to be fully present in every role you play, fully engaged in every responsibility, and fully committed in every relationship—without being defined, driven or destabilised by any one of them.

Engaged Non-Attachment — ENA

The destination of Inner Governance is what TLM calls Engaged Non-Attachment, or ENA. ENA is the trained capacity to be fully present in every role you play, fully engaged in every responsibility, and fully committed in every relationship—without being defined, driven or destabilised by any one of them.

ENA is not

This is not indifference. It is not emotional withdrawal. It is not caring less.

Day 7 · Figure 4 ENA means wholehearted participation without being defined by a role.

Read in Day 20 — The Goal of the Journey · Living with Inner Governance · also Day 1, Day 7, Day 12, Day 14, Day 21

Engaged Value Attachment (EVA)

Full engagement in action with a firm attachment to core values.

If ENA answers the question: “How should I relate to outcomes?” EVA answers another question: “What should guide my actions?”

Two wings of Inner Governance, an engraving: a swan, the hamsa, seen from directly above, flying up the page with both wings spread. The left wing is labelled ENA, Engaged Non-Attachment, our relationship with outcomes; the right wing EVA, Engaged Value Attachment, our relationship with choices. A gold ring at the centre of the body marks Inner Governance. ENAEngaged Non-AttachmentOur relationship with outcomes EVAEngaged Value AttachmentOur relationship with choices Inner Governance
Day 20 · Figure 8Inner Governance finds expression through ENA and EVA.

Read in Day 20 — The Goal of the Journey · Living with Inner Governance · also Day 15, Day 18, Day 19

The Three Levels of Disturbance

The Gross, Subtle and Subconscious levels are not merely a model of how suffering develops. They are also the internal architecture of the Instrument itself.

Disturbance can become visible at the Gross level, take the form of thoughts and emotions at the Subtle level, and become reinforced as conditioning at the Subconscious level. These levels interact, with deeper conditioning influencing subsequent thoughts, emotions and behaviour.

Gross, subtle and subconscious levels with meditation spanning all threeFrom external pressures to the InstrumentRelationshipsWorkFinancesValues & EthicsExternal pressuresGrossBody and behaviourSubtleThoughts, emotionsand attentionSubconsciousConditioningand identificationMeditationcuts acrossall threelevelsThree levels of the Instrument
Day 6 · Figure 3 External pressures enter through the wheels; suffering develops through the three levels.

Read in Day 6 — The four wheels · The three levels: how the wheels generate disturbance · also Day 1, Day 7, Day 20

Pranayama techniques

The breathing practice that opens each day’s closing meditation, in the order the course introduces them. Origins are as given in the Week 1 and Week 2 Origins Charts.

The Week 2 practice programme. Breathing practices moved from regulation (Box Breathing, Day 8) to calming (4-7-8 Breathing, Days 9 to 11), energising (Kapal Bhati, Days 12 and 13) and balance (Nadi Shodhana 1:2:2, Day 14). Ānāpānasati was practised on Days 8, 11 and 13 and the Body Scan on Days 9, 10, 12 and 14.The Week 2 practice programmeBreathing practices and meditations, Days 8 to 14Day 8Day 9Day 10Day 11Day 12Day 13Day 14BreathingpracticeMeditationBoxBreathingregulation4-7-8 BreathingcalmingKapal BhatienergisingNadiShodhana(1:2:2)balanceĀnāpānasati — Days 8, 11 and 13Body Scan — Days 9, 10, 12 and 14
Day 14 · Figure 3Breathing practices moved from regulation to balance while two meditations alternated: one training programme, not isolated techniques.

Yogic Breathing (diaphragmatic)

Days 1–2

Today’s Yogic Breathing will further calm your nervous system, making it easier to notice the gap between experience and reaction.

Origin Classical Yoga · Hatha Pradipika · May support autonomic regulation and stress reduction.

Read in Day 1 — Who am I? · From understanding to experience · also Day 2

Nadi Shodhana

Days 3–4 (1:1:1, then 1:1:2) and Day 14 (1:2:2)

The breath practice paired with Belly-Focused Mindfulness on Day 3.

Nadi Shodhana will help balance and settle the nervous system.

Origin Hatha Yoga · Hatha Pradipika · Some studies suggest effects on relaxation and cardiovascular measures; findings remain preliminary.

Read in Day 3 — The Goal · From understanding to experience · also Day 4, Day 14

Kapal Bhati

Days 12–13

Avoid Kapal Bhati if you have hypertension, cardiovascular disease, a history of stroke, epilepsy, hernia or vertigo, or during pregnancy. If in doubt, consult your physician; practise slow, deep natural breathing instead.

Origin Classical Hatha Yoga tradition; Hatha Yoga Pradipika and traditional ṣaṭkarma (cleansing practices).

Read in Day 12 — The Instrument (the Mind) · Before the response becomes automatic · also Day 13

Meditations

The guided practice that follows each day’s pranayama, grouped by the first source the course’s Origins Charts name for it.

Buddhism

Ānāpānasati (breath awareness)

Days 5, 8, 11, 13, 15 and 18

Then, during Ānāpānasati, simply notice the breath as it is. When the mind wanders, gently return. Nothing has gone wrong.

Origin Theravada Buddhism · Majjhima Nikaya · Mahasi Sayadaw. Week 2: Ānāpānasati Sutta, Majjhima Nikāya 118; Buddhist breath-mindfulness tradition. MBSR, developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, is a modern programme that also uses mindfulness of breathing; it is not the origin of the Buddhist practice.

Read in Day 5 — The Instrument (Body and Mind) · A steady Instrument for the journey · also Day 8, Day 11, Day 13, Day 15, Day 18

Yoga

Modern

Relaxation Response Meditation

Day 2

This will be followed by the Relaxation Response Meditation, a simple and scientifically validated practice that strengthens your ability to observe thoughts without becoming caught up in them.

Origin Harvard Medical School · Dr Herbert Benson, 1975

Read in Day 2 — Diagnosing the false ‘I’ · Knowledge shows the path

Belly-Focused Mindfulness

Days 3–4

The Belly-Focused Mindfulness Meditation will train you to rest your attention in the present moment, allowing the mind to become quieter and steadier.

Origin MBSR · Jon Kabat-Zinn, 1979 · Theravada Buddhism · Zen tradition (hara awareness)

Read in Day 3 — The Goal · From understanding to experience · also Day 4

Body Scan

Days 9, 10, 12 and 14

The breathing practice and the Body Scan will allow today’s ideas to become something more than knowledge.

Origin Body scanning is used in Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, and has parallels with body-awareness practices in Vipassanā traditions. Related but not identical in method or context. Empirical anchor: Sparacio et al., “Self-administered mindfulness interventions reduce stress in a large, randomized controlled multi-site study,” Nature Human Behaviour 8, 1716–1725 (2024), doi:10.1038/s41562-024-01907-7. This study found reductions in short-term self-reported stress.

Read in Day 9 — The Instrument (the Body) · Health develops silently as well · also Day 10, Day 12, Day 14

Other practices

Open Awareness

Days 16, 19 and 21

One purpose of practices such as Aparigraha, Open Awareness and conscious reflection is to strengthen our ability to respond from awareness rather than from automatic emotional activation.

Read in Day 16 — The Vehicle · From grip to clarity · also Day 19, Day 21

Values of the day

One value from the Indian wisdom traditions for each day, with the origin the course gives for it. Day 20, the day of resolution, has none.

An illuminated chart of values shared across wisdom traditions. Around it are six small roundels, each with a line emblem and the tradition named beside it: in the corners the Bhagavad Gita, an open book on a book-stand; Buddhism, an eight-spoked Dharma wheel; Yoga, a lotus; Jainism, the raised open palm with a wheel on it; above the centre Vedanta, the syllable Om; and below the centre Sikhism, the Khanda. From each roundel fine gold rays converge on a central circle framed by a ring of slim lotus petals. Inside, under the heading Universal Human Values, a table pairs each Sanskrit name with its English meaning: Ahimsa, non-harm; Satya, truthfulness; Ārjavam, integrity or straightforwardness, picked out on a gold band as the value of the day; Brahmacharya, self-mastery; Aparigraha, non-grasping; Śaucha, purity; Santoṣa, contentment; Kṣānti or Kṣamā, patience or forgiveness; Dayā or Karuṇā, compassion; Apramāda, awareness or vigilance. Bhagavad Gita Buddhism Yoga Jainism Vedanta Sikhism Universal Human Values Sanskrit English meaning Ahimsa Non-Harm Satya Truthfulness Ārjavam Integrity / Straightforwardness Brahmacharya Self-Mastery Aparigraha Non-Grasping Śaucha Purity Santoṣa Contentment Kṣānti / Kṣamā Patience / Forgiveness Dayā / Karuṇā Compassion Apramāda Awareness / Vigilance Value of the day
Day 19 · Figure 3Different traditions use different language and methods, yet many point toward remarkably similar qualities of character and conduct.

Viveka — Discernment

Discernment, or clear seeing — the value that anchors Day 1.

Throughout the day, your mind continuously interprets every situation through the lens of your past experiences, beliefs and conditioning. We often mistake those interpretations for reality. Viveka is the ability to recognise that difference—to see the label as a label, rather than as the truth.

Origin Upanishads (primary source) · Advaita Vedanta tradition · Vivekachudamani of Shankaracharya, 8th century CE

Read in Day 1 — Who am I? · Viveka

Vairagya — Non-Clinging

Non-clinging — engaging fully with life while remaining inwardly free.

Vairagya is often translated as non-attachment, but it does not mean withdrawing from life or becoming indifferent. It means freedom from compulsive clinging.

Origin Vedanta and Yoga · Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, ~400 CE

Read in Day 2 — Diagnosing the false ‘I’ · Vairagya

Tapas — Inner Discipline

Inner discipline — choosing long-term growth over immediate impulse.

Tapas is often translated as discipline, but that can sound harsh or restrictive. In reality, Tapas is something much simpler and far more empowering. It is the willingness to choose what serves your long-term growth over what merely satisfies an immediate impulse.

Origin Yoga, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism · Universal across traditions

Read in Day 3 — The Goal · Tapas

Karma Yoga — Right Action

Giving your best to action without your identity depending on the outcome.

Karma Yoga means giving your best to every action without allowing your identity to depend upon the outcome.

Origin Bhagavad Gita · Chapters 3 and 6

Read in Day 4 — The Path · Karma Yoga

Shama — Steadiness of Mind

The quietening of the mind through training.

Shama is one of the six inner disciplines of Vedanta, the Shat-Sampat. It is the quietening of the mind—not by suppression, but by training.

Origin Upanishads (primary source) · Shat-Sampat · Vivekachudamani of Shankaracharya

Read in Day 5 — The Instrument (Body and Mind) · Shama — steadiness of mind

Dama — Governance of Outward Engagement

Conscious governance of our outward engagement.

Shama is the steadiness of the inner mind. Dama is the conscious governance of our outward engagement with the world. Together they form the first two disciplines of the Shat-Sampat, the six inner treasures described in Advaita Vedanta.

Origin Upanishads (primary source) · Shat-Sampat · Companion to Shama

Read in Day 6 — The four wheels · Dama — governance of outward engagement

Abhyasa — Sustained Practice

Sustained, patient practice.

The value that completes Week One is Abhyasa—sustained, patient practice. Patanjali tells us that the fluctuations of the mind are quietened through practice and non-attachment. He also tells us what genuine practice looks like. It is sustained. It is uninterrupted. And it is undertaken with sincerity. Not intensity. Not perfection. Continuity.

Origin Bhagavad Gita Chapter 6 · Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, Sutras I.12-14

Read in Day 7 — Week One Integration · Abhyasa — sustained practice

Ahimsa — Non-harm

Non-harming—of others, and of ourselves.

Most of us understand Ahimsa as non-harming—refraining from causing unnecessary harm to other living beings. Ahimsa also means not harming ourselves. The body and mind entrusted to us deserve intelligent care. Treat your body and mind with the same care and respect that you would give to anything precious entrusted to you. Not occasionally. Consistently.

Origin Yoga Sutras 2.30 (Patañjali); Jain tradition (first Mahāvrata); Buddhist Śīla. Related ethical frameworks, not identical formulations.

Read in Day 8 — The Instrument (the Body) · Ahimsa

Uparama — Wise withdrawal

Withdrawing from excess.

Uparama is often translated as withdrawal. But it does not mean withdrawing from life. It means withdrawing from excess. Excess that disturbs the balance of the body. Excess that unsettles the mind. Excess that slowly weakens the Instrument.

Origin Advaita Vedānta; related to Uparati within the ṣaṭ-sampatti (sixfold discipline) tradition; Śaṅkara’s Vivekacūḍāmaṇi.

Read in Day 9 — The Instrument (the Body) · Uparama

Titiksha — Forbearance

Patient endurance that sustains worthwhile habits.

Every worthwhile habit asks something of us before it rewards us. The benefits come later. Titiksha is the quiet strength that helps us stay with these choices long enough for them to become part of who we are. It reminds us that lasting health is rarely created by dramatic effort. It is created by small actions, repeated patiently, day after day.

Origin Vedānta ṣaṭ-sampatti; Bhagavad Gītā 2.14; related Buddhist themes of upekkhā (equanimity) and khanti (patience); Jain kṣamā; Sikh dhīraj. Angela Duckworth’s grit research is a modern comparison, not the source of the traditional value.

Read in Day 10 — The Instrument (the Body) · Titiksha

Samādhāna — Steadiness

Steadiness of mind while thoughts and emotions arise.

Samādhāna is one of the six inner disciplines of Advaita Vedanta. It means steadiness of mind—not the absence of thoughts, but the ability to remain centred while thoughts and emotions continue to arise.

Origin Advaita Vedānta; ṣaṭ-sampatti; Śaṅkara’s Vivekacūḍāmaṇi. Related modern research: Amishi Jha’s work on attention and mindfulness.

Read in Day 11 — The Instrument (the Mind) · Samādhāna

Sati — Mindfulness

Mindfulness: noticing our reactions before we are carried away by them.

The Buddhist tradition calls this quality Sati, commonly translated as mindfulness. Mindfulness is the capacity to be aware of what is happening in the present moment—to notice our thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations and reactions without immediately being swept away by them.

Origin Satipaṭṭhāna Sutta (Majjhima Nikāya 10; also Dīgha Nikāya 22); Buddhist mindfulness traditions, including Theravāda and Mahāyāna. Appamāda (heedfulness) appears in Dhammapada 21 but is not the direct textual citation for Sati.

Read in Day 12 — The Instrument (the Mind) · Sati

Shaucham — Inner cleanliness

Cleanliness of the inner space.

Shaucham is one of the five Niyamas, the inner observances described by Patanjali in the Yoga Sutras (2.40–2.41). It is also listed by Krishna in the Bhagavad Gita (13.7) as one of the qualities of wisdom. In both traditions, Shaucham refers not only to external cleanliness but also to the cleanliness of the inner space. So, what does Shaucham mean in the context of the inner space? It is the practice of not adding unnecessary attention to the thoughts that arise.

Origin Yoga Sutras 2.40–41 (Patañjali); Bhagavad Gītā 13.7; related Jain and Sikh traditions of purification. Modern complementary sources: cognitive defusion and mindfulness-based approaches; Lucy Hone’s applied resilience work.

Read in Day 13 — The Instrument (the Mind) · Shaucham

Santosa — Contentment

Resting in adequacy after sincere effort.

Santosa is often translated as contentment, but it means something deeper. It is neither complacency nor the abandonment of growth. It is the capacity to rest in adequacy after sincere effort.

Origin Yoga Sutras 2.42 (Patañjali); Yoga Niyamas. Buddhist upekkhā may be a point of comparison, not an exact synonym.

Read in Day 14 — Week Two Integration · Santosa

Satya — Truthfulness

Alignment with reality in thought, speech and action.

Satya is not simply about not lying. It means alignment with reality — in thought, speech and action. It means not distorting what you actually know to be true because of fear, convenience, image, or the desire to manage how others see you.

Tradition Indian wisdom traditions

Read in Day 15 — The Vehicle · Satya

Aparigraha — Non-possessiveness

Non-possessiveness: responsible financial care without the compulsion of more.

Aparigraha means using money as a means, not as emotional insurance. It means earning, saving and planning responsibly — without constant inner anxiety. It means recognising the difference between need-based sufficiency and fear-based accumulation.

Tradition Yoga

Read in Day 16 — The Vehicle · Aparigraha

Maitri and Karuṇā — Loving-kindness and compassion

Friendliness and loving-kindness. Compassion for those who are struggling.

Friendliness, loving-kindness: the quality brought to colleagues and to those who are doing well. Compassion: the quality brought to those who are struggling, whose work is failing, or who are simply not coping.

Tradition Yoga and Buddhism

Read in Day 17 — The Vehicle · Maitri and Karuṇā

Samyak Ājīva — Right Livelihood

Right Livelihood: remaining ethically awake in professional life.

Samyak Ājīva refers to the way one earns, leads, decides, and exercises professional responsibility such that one’s work does not knowingly cause harm, corruption, or inner fragmentation.

Tradition Buddhism

Read in Day 18 — The Vehicle · Samyak Ājīva

Ārjavam — Rectitude

Alignment between thought, speech and action.

Ārjavam is often translated as straightness or rectitude. But in the context of TLM, I want you to understand it more deeply as alignment. Alignment between what you think, what you say, and what you do.

Tradition Bhagavad Gita

Read in Day 19 — The Vehicle · Ārjavam

Anāsakti — ENA in action

Non-attachment in action.

You prepare fully. You act wholeheartedly. You give the action everything you have. And yet, you do not make your peace, your worth or your identity dependent upon what comes back. You do your part. You receive what comes. And you remain inwardly free.

Tradition Bhagavad Gita

Read in Day 21 — The Integrated Life · Anāsakti — ENA in action

Intentional activities

One practice from positive psychology and related research for each day, with the origin the course gives for it. Day 20, the day of resolution, has none.

Finding the Gap

Noticing the sensation and the story, then taking one conscious breath.

Choose one situation that usually produces a mild emotional reaction. Perhaps traffic. Perhaps a delayed message. Perhaps a difficult conversation. When it happens, practise three simple steps.

Origin Vipassana tradition · MBSR · Theravada Buddhism

Read in Day 2 — Diagnosing the false ‘I’ · Finding the gap

Pause, Breathe, Choose

Three-word practice: pause, take one breath, then choose your response.

Whenever you notice yourself becoming irritated, impatient, anxious or emotionally reactive, don’t try to suppress the feeling. Simply pause. Take one slow, conscious breath. Then ask yourself: “What response would my wiser self choose in this moment?”

Origin MBSR · Positive Psychology · Kabat-Zinn / Seligman

Read in Day 3 — The Goal · Pause, Breathe, Choose

Values-Based Action

Choosing one task and asking ‘why’, then ‘did I give my best?’

Before you begin, pause for one slow breath and ask yourself: “Why am I doing this?” Is this action driven by fear… By the need for approval… Or by my values?

Origin Positive Psychology · Emotion regulation research · Gross, 1998

Read in Day 4 — The Path · Values-based action

The Energy Audit

Check the physical, emotional, mental and purposeful condition of the Instrument.

Three times—morning, midday and evening—pause for one minute and check the condition of your Instrument across four dimensions. Physical: How is the body? Fresh and energetic—or tired and strained? Emotional: What is the emotional climate? Calm—or reactive? Mental: How is your attention? Clear—or scattered? Purposeful: Are you connected to what truly matters today—or merely reacting to whatever appears next?

Origin Positive Psychology · Loehr and Schwartz, The Power of Full Engagement

Read in Day 5 — The Instrument (Body and Mind) · The Energy Audit

The Wheel of Life Reflection

Score the four wheels and choose one small action.

On Day 1 you recorded your baseline: a score from 1 to 10 for each of the four domains—Relationships, Profession and Work, Finances, and Values and Ethics. Rate the same four domains on the same 1–10 scale, then compare your current scores with Day 1. The lowest score identifies the wheel creating the greatest strain in your life today. Now identify one small, specific action—not a major life overhaul—that could improve that wheel even slightly. Write it down. Then do it.

Origin Positive Psychology · Paul Whitmore · Evidence-based coaching

Read in Day 6 — The four wheels · The Wheel of Life Reflection

Three Good Things

Recognise three real moments from the week that mattered.

Take five quiet minutes today. Identify three things from this past week that you genuinely appreciate. Not dramatic achievements. Not extraordinary experiences. Simply three real moments that mattered. For each of these three things, write one simple sentence.

Origin Positive Psychology · Martin Seligman, University of Pennsylvania · Kristin Neff self-compassion research

Read in Day 7 — Week One Integration · Three Good Things

Your Best Possible Health Self

Imagine yourself five years from now.

Origin Listed in the Week 2 chart as “Panchakosha reflection”: Taittirīya Upaniṣad; Advaita Vedānta. This is a contemporary course adaptation, not a claim that the Upaniṣad prescribes this exact exercise.

Read in Day 9 — The Instrument (the Body) · Your Best Possible Health Self

The Maintenance Audit

Take five quiet minutes today and look honestly at these three pillars: movement, nutrition, sleep.

Origin Listed in the Week 2 chart as “Patient consistency”: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), associated with Steven C. Hayes; Kristin Neff’s self-compassion research. Complementary modern frameworks.

Read in Day 10 — The Instrument (the Body) · The Maintenance Audit

Practising Inner Settledness

It is not about quieting the mind. It is about changing how we relate to it.

Origin ACT and cognitive defusion (Steven C. Hayes and colleagues); mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), including Segal, Williams and Teasdale, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression (2002).

Read in Day 11 — The Instrument (the Mind) · Practising Inner Settledness

Recognising Readiness

It is not about changing anything. It is simply about noticing.

Origin Course-designed reflection informed by positive psychology; Santosa, Yoga Sutras 2.42. This is a course activity, not a named intervention from a specific research study.

Read in Day 14 — Week Two Integration · Recognising Readiness

Brain networks

The networks and regions named in the Scientific Quadrant, with the practices the course links to each and what they support.

Week 2 brain integration map. On the brain engraving, seen from the left side with the front of the brain to the left, the prefrontal cortex at the front of the brain is tinted gold; three deep structures are drawn in projection with dashed gold outlines: the insula beneath the lateral fissure, and the amygdala and hippocampus in the temporal lobe. The Executive Control, Salience and Default Mode networks are highlighted in gold; the attention and reward networks from earlier days are subdued. Positions are illustrative. Week 2 brain integration map Prefrontal cortex Self-regulation, judgement Executive Control Network (ECN) Focus and cognitive control Default Mode Network (DMN) Rumination, mind wandering Salience Network Detecting what matters Hippocampus Learning, memory, context Amygdala Emotional reactivity Insula Interoception, self-awareness Deep structures, shown in projection Subdued: networks introduced on earlier days
Day 14 · Figure 14Different practices engage processes associated with attention, emotional regulation and self-awareness. The diagram is illustrative; it does not imply that each practice acts on one isolated brain region or network.

Default Mode Network (DMN)

The brain network active when the mind drifts into memories and self-talk.

The DMN is active when the mind drifts into memories, worries, fantasies, judgements, and repetitive self-talk.

PracticesMeditation and witnessing practices

SupportsProcesses associated with self-referential thought and mind wandering; meditation effects vary by practice and individual.

Read in Day 1 — Who am I? · Stage 1: Understand the mind · also Day 2, Day 14, Day 16, Day 17, Day 21

Salience Network

The internal monitor that decides where attention should be directed.

The Salience Network acts as an internal monitor. It helps us notice important experiences arising within the mind and body and decide where attention should be directed.

PracticesMindfulness and self-observation

SupportsDetecting what matters in the present moment

Read in Day 2 — Diagnosing the false ‘I’ · Decentering · also Day 3, Day 6, Day 14, Day 15, Day 18

Reward Network

The brain contains powerful reward pathways involving dopamine and related neurotransmitters.

These systems motivate us to pursue goals, seek novelty and move toward desired outcomes. They are essential for growth and achievement, but they can also create an endless cycle of wanting more, even after previous goals have been reached.

Read in Day 3 — The Goal · What are we training today?

Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC)

The brain contains several systems that help us recognise when something requires closer attention. One of the most important is the Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC).

One of the brain regions most involved in detecting conflict is the Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC). The ACC becomes active when the brain recognises a mismatch between competing goals, beliefs or behaviours.

Read in Day 18 — The Vehicle · Why good people drift · also Day 19

Origin charts

The charts that close each week, showing where every practice comes from.

Week 1 Origins Chart

Days 1–7

This Origins Chart shows where each of these practices comes from. Think of it as your recommended reading and reference guide.

Values
PracticeOrigin, source and authority
Viveka — Discernment Upanishads (primary source)
Advaita Vedanta tradition
Vivekachudamani of Shankaracharya, 8th century CE
Vairagya — Non-Clinging Vedanta and Yoga
Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, ~400 CE
Tapas — Inner Discipline Yoga, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism
Universal across traditions
Karma Yoga — Right Action Bhagavad Gita
Chapters 3 and 6
Shama — Steadiness of Mind Upanishads (primary source)
Shat-Sampat
Vivekachudamani of Shankaracharya
Dama — Governance of Outward Engagement Upanishads (primary source)
Shat-Sampat
Companion to Shama
Abhyasa — Sustained Practice Bhagavad Gita Chapter 6
Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, Sutras I.12-14
Intentional activities
PracticeOrigin, source and authority
Day 1 — Sensory Awareness Practice MBSR
Jon Kabat-Zinn, University of Massachusetts, 1979
Day 2 — Finding the Gap Vipassana tradition
MBSR
Theravada Buddhism
Day 3 — Pause, Breathe, Choose MBSR
Positive Psychology
Kabat-Zinn / Seligman
Day 4 — Values-Based Action Positive Psychology
Emotion regulation research
Gross, 1998
Day 5 — Energy Audit Positive Psychology
Loehr and Schwartz, The Power of Full Engagement
Day 6 — Wheel of Life Reflection Positive Psychology
Paul Whitmore
Evidence-based coaching
Day 7 — Three Good Things Positive Psychology
Martin Seligman, University of Pennsylvania
Kristin Neff self-compassion research
Pranayamas
PracticeOrigin, source and authority
Days 1-2 — Yogic Breathing (diaphragmatic) Classical Yoga
Hatha Pradipika
May support autonomic regulation and stress reduction.
Days 3-4 — Nadi Shodhana (1:1:1 then 1:1:2) Hatha Yoga
Hatha Pradipika
Some studies suggest effects on relaxation and cardiovascular measures; findings remain preliminary.
Days 5-7 — Bhramari (humming breath) Hatha Yoga
Hatha Pradipika
Preliminary studies suggest possible calming and autonomic effects; stronger research is needed.
Meditations
PracticeOrigin, source and authority
Day 1 — Mantra Meditation (So-Hum) Patanjali Yoga Sutras
Sutra I.28
Japa tradition
Day 2 — Relaxation Response Harvard Medical School
Dr Herbert Benson, 1975
Days 3-4 — Belly-Focused Mindfulness MBSR
Jon Kabat-Zinn, 1979
Theravada Buddhism
Zen tradition (hara awareness)
Day 5 — Ānāpānasati (nostril awareness) Theravada Buddhism
Majjhima Nikaya
Mahasi Sayadaw
Day 6 — Thought Noting Vipassana
Theravada Buddhism
Mahasi Sayadaw, 20th century
Day 7 — Integration Meditation Synthesis: Yoga, MBSR, Vipassana
Week 1 consolidation

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Week 2 Origins Chart

Days 8–14

The Origins Chart brings together everything you have encountered during Week 2—the values, health science, breathing practices, meditations, intentional activities, and the traditions and researchers from which they come.

Practice / contentOrigin · Source · Authority
Values — Week 2 arc
Ahimsa — Non-harm (Day 8)Yoga Sutras 2.30 (Patañjali); Jain tradition (first Mahāvrata); Buddhist Śīla. Related ethical frameworks, not identical formulations.
Uparama — Wise withdrawal (Day 9)Advaita Vedānta; related to Uparati within the ṣaṭ-sampatti (sixfold discipline) tradition; Śaṅkara’s Vivekacūḍāmaṇi.
Titiksha — Forbearance (Day 10)Vedānta ṣaṭ-sampatti; Bhagavad Gītā 2.14; related Buddhist themes of upekkhā (equanimity) and khanti (patience); Jain kṣamā; Sikh dhīraj. Angela Duckworth’s grit research is a modern comparison, not the source of the traditional value.
Samādhāna — Steadiness (Day 11)Advaita Vedānta; ṣaṭ-sampatti; Śaṅkara’s Vivekacūḍāmaṇi. Related modern research: Amishi Jha’s work on attention and mindfulness.
Sati — Mindfulness (Day 12)Satipaṭṭhāna Sutta (Majjhima Nikāya 10; also Dīgha Nikāya 22); Buddhist mindfulness traditions, including Theravāda and Mahāyāna. Appamāda (heedfulness) appears in Dhammapada 21 but is not the direct textual citation for Sati.
Shaucham — Inner cleanliness (Day 13)Yoga Sutras 2.40–41 (Patañjali); Bhagavad Gītā 13.7; related Jain and Sikh traditions of purification. Modern complementary sources: cognitive defusion and mindfulness-based approaches; Lucy Hone’s applied resilience work.
Santosa — Contentment (Day 14)Yoga Sutras 2.42 (Patañjali); Yoga Niyamas. Buddhist upekkhā may be a point of comparison, not an exact synonym.
Health content — research anchors
Cardiovascular health (Day 8)Dariush Mozaffarian and Tufts Friedman School of Nutrition Science and Policy; broader evidence on cardiovascular prevention and lifestyle-related risk.
Cancer and neurodegeneration (Day 9)Lisa Mosconi’s research and public scholarship on brain health and Alzheimer’s disease. Peter Attia’s The Drive is supplementary educational material, not a primary research citation.
Movement, diet and sleep (Day 10)Kelly Starrett and Juliet Starrett, Built to Move (Knopf, 2023); Matthew Walker, Why We Sleep (2017).
Stress biology (Day 11)Robert M. Sapolsky, Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers; Lisa Feldman Barrett’s research and scholarship on emotion.
Stress mindset and meaning (Day 12)Crum, Salovey & Achor, “Rethinking Stress: The Role of Mindsets in Determining the Stress Response,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 104(4), 716–733 (2013), doi:10.1037/a0031201. The paper examines stress mindsets.
Inner cleanliness and resilience (Day 13)Lucy Hone’s applied resilience work; Rick Hanson, Hardwiring Happiness; Killingsworth & Gilbert, “A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind,” Science 330 (2010), doi:10.1126/science.1192439; Amishi Jha, Peak Mind (2021) and research on attention. Each source supports a different topic.
Pranayamas — Week 2 arc
Box Breathing 4:4:4:4 (Day 8)Paced/tactical breathing practices and research on controlled breathing and stress regulation.
4-7-8 Breathing (Days 9–11)Andrew Weil’s popularised 4-7-8 method; broader pranayama tradition and research on slow-paced breathing. Slow breathing may influence autonomic regulation.
Kapal Bhati (Days 12–13)Classical Hatha Yoga tradition; Hatha Yoga Pradipika and traditional ṣaṭkarma (cleansing practices).
Meditations — Week 2
Ānāpānasati (Days 8, 11, 13)Ānāpānasati Sutta, Majjhima Nikāya 118; Buddhist breath-mindfulness tradition. MBSR, developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, is a modern programme that also uses mindfulness of breathing; it is not the origin of the Buddhist practice.
Body Scan (Days 9, 10, 12, 14)Body scanning is used in Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, and has parallels with body-awareness practices in Vipassanā traditions. Related but not identical in method or context. Empirical anchor: Sparacio et al., “Self-administered mindfulness interventions reduce stress in a large, randomized controlled multi-site study,” Nature Human Behaviour 8, 1716–1725 (2024), doi:10.1038/s41562-024-01907-7. This study found reductions in short-term self-reported stress.
Intentional activities — Week 2
Ahimsa self-audit (Day 8)Positive psychology and self-compassion research; Kristin Neff’s research and resources on self-compassion.
Panchakosha reflection (Day 9)Taittirīya Upaniṣad; Advaita Vedānta. This is a contemporary course adaptation, not a claim that the Upaniṣad prescribes this exact exercise.
Patient consistency (Day 10)Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), associated with Steven C. Hayes; Kristin Neff’s self-compassion research. Complementary modern frameworks.
Inner settledness (Day 11)ACT and cognitive defusion (Steven C. Hayes and colleagues); mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), including Segal, Williams and Teasdale, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression (2002).
Stress-supportive action (Day 12)Kelly McGonigal, The Upside of Stress; Alia J. Crum and colleagues’ research on stress mindset; research on social connection and resilience.
Inner cleanliness (Day 13)MBCT; ACT cognitive defusion; Shaucham, Yoga Sutras 2.40–41; Lucy Hone’s applied resilience work, including the helping-or-harming question.
Recognising Readiness (Day 14)Course-designed reflection informed by positive psychology; Santosa, Yoga Sutras 2.42. This is a course activity, not a named intervention from a specific research study.

This chart distinguishes traditional texts and lineages, contemporary educational sources, and empirical research. Inclusion does not imply that every practice has the same level of scientific validation.

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